Mom:

"Those who feel they hurt too much, at times choose not to love, but it is still love ...it's just a confused love, or at times, an angry love.  To not love, is to not care. To not care, is absolute apathy ...so with that, there would be no anger.  Anger is easily identified with and common to most all of us, but it's not well understood. And it can sometimes be a healthy outlet, if not visited too long."